Bangalore-- to --Hamburg via Chennai

Sorry for the fancy title..I forced myself to keep this title for no reason....

I Wish to start this with few lines from my "so called poems"

"Black tinted clouds were ready to spill,
Bold thunders reminded the times of fright like never before
Distant trees waved like green paintings gleaming in the dark
And we stand together holding hands"

Orange clouds, evening sunshine,.. took me to the buried memories

River to paddle and roads to waddle,
moonless nights to await and stunning seasons to bait.."

I was waiting for a right time to write about my two close friends and our Goa trip...

It all started almost a decade ago and i hope it continues for more decades ..

My school days ..
I would say it was both the worst and best phase of my life... 

I always had mixed feelings in each and every stage of my Life.

Life is a mystery always,.. Enigmatic.. Crazy..lol

A pic to remember..sorry guys ,for the madness i showed for taking this "epic picture"

I'm sure my two close friends (Sid and Aravind) would smile reading this ..

I have so much to write about them but i wont be able to write all that here

Thanks a lot guys

You both have influenced me a lot...in a good and positive way.

I have learnt a lot form you guys...
About Love,friendship,Rock music,Internet,Culture,society..etc.. its a long list..

Sid you have always inspired me as a good Engineer... Even though i was not able to become a good one like you.

I think i dont deserve to become one like you.. Maybe Life has kept something else for me.

Aravind you are surprised about my career option.... and I'm sure you will have a doubt about what i'm gonna do hereafter...you might be observing silently..

I'm sure Sid is not happy with what i did to myself...but I will handle it..I remember your words...and advice sessions in Goa and coimbatore..  I will make you feel proud someday.. I would always be a good friend..

Aravind would always be proud about you..
Our Life and goals have separated us after school..
College...new friends.. career..love.. breakups..hookups.. heartbreak..pain.. solace....and friendship again.

I have become mad..especially when you guys are not with me .. I m crazy enough to write all this in this post sitting in a den like room in Bangalore at midnight 1 o clock using my mobile phone....because of the Goa trip that we went a month ago..

Goa!!!!!!!!!!!!! ..wow... What a trip it was.. I have never felt excited so much about any trip in my life time ....
We got along with each other after a very long time... A decade old friendship..had some of the best times of my life..
Thanks a lot guys once again..

We spent valuable time together which was a lifetime experience.. And moments to cherish... Aravind would never forget this trip I'm sure.. Lol...Sid would not deny it..

I am struggling to adapt in this electronic garden city..I love this city (Bangalore) but at the same time I have lot many reasons to  hate it... Money minded crazy people.. Pollution...unorganized .. Apathetic people... Sub-urbanization and lot more...

I start missing my Coimbatore and my close friends...

Aravind's thoughts ,views and perceptions about this society ,elite class people ,dalits,polity,Hindhi language,Eelam are sensible, insightful but also controversial and debatable..he may not be right always.. "Not always" Aravind..lol ;)

Sid and I feel at times Aravind has changed a lot.. Things are not like before..
But life demands us to prioritize our needs based upon our dreams and goals..

Its OK ..at the end of the day ..we are friends..we were friends and we will be friends and try to be in touch as far as possible....
I ask myself why i have to write about all this .. I don't know the answer.....

Some questions in life always remain unanswered...
Maybe after few years when I read this I would smile and become reminiscent.

Goa will never forget us..I think ;)

I hope the waves of Candoilm,Palolem,Velsao,Bagha,Calangute and the beaches we visited will invite us again to get drenched and kiss our legs..

I hope the Chapora fort,aguada fort,the room we stayed, will keep echoing our voices in the years and decades to come

I hope the roads and streets of south goa will invite Sid to drive again and go mad...

I hope the clean and tasty waters of dudh sagar will miss Sid and his camera ;) .. Lol

I hope the Shacks where we had lunch and clicked snaps will never forget us..

I am sure goa will never invite Aravind to "only booze" ..lol.. ;)

The "Enna da Gooooooooooooooooooooooooooova moment".

It was one awesome trip...
One should visit Goa atleast once in their lifetime with their best friends..worth spending money and time..


Its good to enjoy and spend time with best friends with your hard earned money...



You have lots to do in Goa other than boozing drooling or get drooled over .. ;)


Like,loury skies facing the earth,
Like ,withered leaves frowning at the blooms,
Like,horned owl gazing at the halo of moon,
We stay wordless before eternal verity....

When legs start speaking

May 25th,2014 was another special day..

Little legs walking on the busy roads of Indian silicon valley..
Sometimes its better to show the legs than one's face.
Legs can speak a lot...

Especially when someone else walks along with you.....
In my case.. it is someone who is very special,She is going to walk along with me life long.
i have just captured one fine moment here

"She walks in Beauty"

Its been more than two years since i fell in the dale of love with her..
But day by day the love for her is increasing,
Each and every moment with her is becoming memorable
Every time when i think about her there's is only one thing that comes to my mind..."Her smile".. Never seen someone smiling so cutely on this earth...I still envy her and love it.

The way she looks at me tells how much she loves....
The way she hugs me,shows how much i mean to her...
The way she walks in elegance.

Oh! God how long i have to wait to have her as my wife..

An Old Women Who Touched My Heart....

21st April 2014...

It was a busy evening in Bangalore

Heavy traffic,

I was tired and exhausted

Walking back to my hostel from office….

On the way, I came across an old women sitting in the roadside begging for money...

For a moment I felt she had lot of reasons to do that...

No food, No proper clothes to wear, no place to live, no family, no one to help or care,

I was not able to turn that side, not ready to face her and say “I don't have anything to help you”…

I don’t know in what language she was talking but I was able to realize that she is begging for money to eat...Pain of hunger…i saw,lot of people crossing that side but no one cared or turned to her side.

 Don't know what was the exact reason, but I always avoid seeing these kinds of scenes when I go out...

I felt disturbed for a moment, and then I have to become normal because after all I am a typical human being who is worried only about his family or his problems.

We people think we don't find time and money to solve our own problems,

We don’t have that kind of heart which worries about those innocent people who die in Sri lanka or people who die every day because of hunger and still starving in some unknown part of Africa.

We just read news papers or watch smart journalists in TV, who  keep shouting “India needs an answer” sitting in the AC studios comfortably just to increase the TRP.

Ultimately this world is running behind money and it is travelling towards another world where people are selfish and arrogant and that world will not know that there is something called humanity or empathy.

A new born baby will cry and say this one day...

“Dear Almighty,

I want a world where there is no money, where people love each other... I want those people who are good and who live like angels, not rude, not arrogant, not behind fame …people who are not selfish...I don't want a world where human beings keep running behind money.”

People are dying without food and basic needs but some are worried and unhappy because of filthy things in life like

“No girl friend, no money to booze ,no money to watch movies, no proper dresses to flaunt,EMI,no appraisal,marriage,lust,sex,own vehicle etc..”

Has anyone worried about those, who really struggle to live in this selfish world?

Everybody in this world have their own goals and dreams,

And to achieve that goal and make that dream come true….We need money...

“If you have a place to live in,

And food to eat thrice in a day then you are one of the richest persons in the world”

But apart from food, proper clothes and shelter...We have lot of attractions in this world which are worthless, useless.

Half of the families living in cities like Bangalore, Mumbai and Chennai spend their time paying EMIs (home loans, Vehicle loans, Credit cards) and very keen about filling their bank "accounts" with money for the next generation.

To all those people who flaunt and spend money lavishly I want to say something

Dear folks,

Every time when we swipe our credit or debit card…Someone on the other side of the world might be dying because of money (debts).

Before wasting food... think about someone on the other side of the world who is dying without food (hunger, famine)

When we worry about our inability to own a house…think about those people who live in the roadside platforms...

When we keep worrying about our salary …think about those graduates who are jobless.…

Think about those uneducated children living on this earth...who don’t even know what currency means...

We are not going to take anything with us when we die....

Live and let live...

Regards,

Mukesh Ishwar Parmar

(A typical Indian citizen)

New Life in Bangalore

As I already mentioned in my previous post..Bangalore has given me a lot..


Thanks to that special person who is really driving me crazy,I'm totally mad about that person.
Sometimes in our life we have to take some decision which is really diffficult,some desicion may change your life,it turns your life upside down.
I feel,to gain something in life one has to lose something.
Each and every person on this earth will lose something or the other in his/her life to gain something...

Everyday this city looks new,

Busy roads,Lot of pollution,Weekend outing,lot of malls,pubs etc.

Traffic keeps changing everyday.. it can never be judged.

A Typical middle class Bangalore citizen faces 45-60 minutes of commute everyday.

I always observe this city in a different way..

Bangalore deserves to be called as "The Silicon valley of India".
Bangalore has become the hub of many Start-up companies.As a job consultant i was able to hear about many start-up companies.

Few years ago,i did not know that i would be starting my career in Bangalore..But today i am really happy that i have come here for a valid reason.

Many have not seen the darker side of Bangalore,I would be writing about it in my future posts.

I have got some really good friends in my workplace and PG.

Thanks to all.
You guys have made an impact.